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00:00 The Power of Warmth + Competence for Charisma
00:33 Introduction to Vanessa Van Edwards & Her Work
01:03 Real vs. Fake Smiles: Why Eye Crinkles Matter
02:08 How Authentic Cues Become Contagious
02:26 Social Rejection Cues & Their Impact on Perception
03:04 Hands, Feet & Nonverbal Signs of Engagement
08:45 The Perfect Blend: Warmth + Competence
15:20 High Warmth/Low Competence vs. High Competence/Low Warmth
22:30 Dealing with Toxic People & Protecting Your Energy
28:10 Vocal Power: How to Sound More Authoritative
35:45 Reading Facial Expressions & Microexpressions
45:20 Charisma Myths & Different Styles of Charisma
52:30 Spotting Lies & Deception Cues
01:02:15 Narcissism vs. True Charisma
01:12:40 People Skills in Dating, Networking & Leadership
01:22:50 Cues: The New Book Breakdown & Celebrity Examples
01:34:30 Three Truths & the Power of Words/Gratitude
01:36:30 Closing Gratitude & Final Thoughts
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