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Most people trying to manifest love are quietly doing the things that push it away.
In this clip, Jay Shetty argues that you don’t attract the relationship you want, you attract the relationship you’re ready to participate in. Vision boards and lists won’t do it. Your nervous system, your identity, and your calendar will.
Jay breaks down why chaos can feel like chemistry, why the story you tell about your love life keeps proving itself true, and the reason you should never go dating hungry.
Learn about the four things to focus on if you want to find love this year, and why the person who makes you feel safe matters more than the one who makes you feel wanted.
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Chapters
0:00 — Why most people push love away
1:37 — Principle one: emotional availability
2:23 — Secure vs. insecure behaviour
3:31 — The four women who wanted love and weren’t dating
4:51 — Principle two: identity shapes attraction
7:04 — Shifting from intention to identity
8:31 — Principle three: proximity and probability
10:46 — Never go dating when you’re starving
11:58 — Principle four: nervous system compatibility
14:10 — Principle five: standards vs. defenses
17:41 — When you’re looking for a project, not a partner
18:12 — Four things to focus on this year
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix – https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify – https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oky-negk7sE
