You knew early on it wasn’t right.
You gave them a chance anyway.
A few weeks of dating turned into years.
Stephan Speaks says the safe choice is almost always the wrong choice.
In this clip, Stephan Speaks and Jay Shetty ask why so many people stay for years with someone they knew wasn’t right in the first few weeks.
Stephan talks about the worst advice men get about falling in love, why being a yes man turns your partner off, and what a letter can do that a hard conversation can’t.
Learn about the unhealthy love cycle that leads so many people to pick someone they can fix, and why being loving was never the thing that got you hurt.
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Chapters
0:00 — How to know someone’s wasting your time
1:35 — Why your intuition knows first
2:25 — The first sign someone deeply loves you
4:02 — How to define love
5:30 — Connection as your spirit recognizing its match
6:09 — Showing a side of you that isn’t real
8:07 — Should relationships be hard or easy?
9:23 — What The Game gets wrong about love
12:06 — The worst advice men get about love
13:50 — Balancing masculine and feminine energy
17:27 — Why fear makes men lose themselves
19:01 — Why kindness is the power position
21:12 — Why we keep dating the same people
24:37 — Choosing someone you can fix
25:25 — The unhealthy love cycle
27:33 — How to know when it’s time to go
30:46 — Why a letter beats a hard conversation
32:42 — Should you try to win them back?
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix – https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify – https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Stephan Speaks:
https://youtu.be/mPQBcb9wf8Q
