You can’t attract what you’re not. If you want someone kind, successful and hardworking, ask yourself one thing first: are you?
In this episode, Sara and Jay Shetty talk about why good people keep attracting the wrong person.
Sara has been in five relationships and two marriages. She kept finding the same man in a different body. Then she stopped pointing the finger and asked what her part was.
She shares why nerves on a date can be a red flag, not butterflies. She explains why the calm, boring guy might be the one. And she tells the story of a friend who had three amazing months with a man who then vanished.
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Chapters
0:00 Are you what you’re trying to manifest?
1:30 Wanting someone vs. needing someone
3:10 Why mystery stopped being attractive
5:36 Why chemistry can mislead you
7:22 What inner work really is
10:00 Five relationships, one pattern
13:43 Why love is a decision, not a feeling
16:03 The honest first-date talk
18:01 Why she stayed too long
21:55 A message to anyone in a toxic relationship
25:58 Rock bottom has a basement
27:32 The house with no doors
28:30 The three months that ended in a ghost
31:37 Why we fall for potential
36:52 What self-love really means
42:41 Forgiveness without an open invitation
45:23 Training your brain with Phoenix mode
46:46 The Final Five
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