You’ve heard “if he wanted to, he would.” Sabrina Zohar says that line is keeping you single.
In this clip, Sabrina Zohar and Jay Shetty talk about why we chase people who don’t choose us. Sabrina shares the two questions that changed how she dates. And she explains why the person who feels most familiar is often the wrong one.
She shares the first-date question that shows red flags fast, and she talks about why butterflies aren’t always a good sign. She also opens up about what she told her partner at the end of their very first date.
Learn why someone can be perfect for six weeks and then suddenly pull away. And learn why “right person, wrong time” might be a story we tell ourselves.
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Chapters
0:00 They love me, they love me not
1:48 Why we chase people who don’t want us
3:28 Dating the parts of you that haven’t healed
4:48 Your state, your story, your strategy
6:43 The first-date question that shows red flags
8:24 Why butterflies can be a warning sign
9:18 When they change after six weeks
11:15 The Thursday date advice she hates
14:16 Tired of dating apps
17:01 What she told her partner on date one
18:18 Her non-negotiables in dating
22:00 Signs someone is emotionally unavailable
24:49 Potential vs. capacity
30:15 Right person, wrong time
32:42 Is it okay to ghost after one date?
42:48 How to have the “what are we” talk
48:23 Rapid fire: “If he wanted to, he would”
51:52 Should love feel effortless?
Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️
Netflix – https://dub.sh/QaUsKeD
Spotify – https://dub.sh/axUXylv
Full Episode With Sabrina Zohar:
Episode Resources:
Website | https://www.sabrinazohar.com/
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@Sabrina_zohar
TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/p/The-Sabrina-Zohar-Show-100094409286590/
