Relationship therapist, Lori Gottlieb, is back to answer the top relationship questions most people are afraid to ask. From the pressure of finding love in your late 20s and 30s, to whether true love should "just feel easy," Gottlieb exposes why popular beliefs may be holding you back. Learn why many couples break up at the 5-year mark and what makes relationships actually last. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this conversation offers crucial insights about building lasting connections.
If you liked this episode you may enjoy my conversation about attracting love with Joe Dispenza https://youtu.be/F-MEegYIWaM
In this interview, we discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:40 Are You Behind In Love?
05:02 We Date Our Unfinished Business
11:51 Attachment Styles
16:48 You’re Doing First Dates WRONG
22:02 What Does Love Feel Like?
25:31 Do You Fully Understand Your Partner?
28:13 The Secrets To Long-Lasting Relationships
37:43 Be Consistent With Your Boundaries
46:13 You’re Not Ready For Marriage
50:12 Communicate Your Needs
52:56 The Blind Spots of Dating
56:56 The Truth About Future Tripping
01:00:33 The Truth About Dating Shows & Media
01:01:58 This Is When Most Relationships Fail Statistically
01:04:11 Can Having Children Save a Marriage?
01:07:05 The In-Law Issue
01:12:21 When Couples Therapy Is The Right Choice
01:17:09 How Long Can You Tolerate Disrespect From Your Partner?
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